From no contact to Harmonious Union
The DF and DM Perspective.
After some time passed I had to take charge of my life, I was feeling miserable, but I knew I had to make some changes. I couldn't live like that anymore. I started focusing on myself and what felt good to me. Like sitting outside on my porch with a cup of coffee, enjoying the sun, watching the birds play and the butterflies fluttering around me. I would follow my intuition, make a choice to be present with myself. If I wanted to read a book, I would read a book. If I wanted to go on a walk, I would go on a walk. I surrendered to what my mind, body and soul wanted. Being in the flow of life and the Divine. These things might seem small and not related, but on your Twin Flame journey self love and surrender are crucial. I got in touch with my self again, I started enjoying my life. I put the focus on me rather than everywhere else. With me not focusing so much on what had went wrong and to get communication again, it allowed our Union to relax and open up in that space.
And it didn't take long before she started talking to me again.
On her end she experienced getting immensely triggered by me and her way of handle relationships at that time was to just cut the relationship off. If she came to the point of being that triggered and upset she would end it. She felt like she didn't know how to handle to hurt.
This might give you some insight to what is happening in your Union. No communication is communication. It is bringing up a feeling in you and it also is bringing up a feeling in you Twin Flame. They might not know how to handle the intense feeling, or that might be what you are experiencing. The no contact gave us an opportunity to work on our feelings and move through them, that way we could come together in harmony and peace.
You can allow yourself to relax, knowing that your Union is already yours, it is inevitable. If you have a desire in your heart, it is already yours. Focus on you, listening to what your body and feelings are telling you. Focus on what makes you happy. Take your inner child on a play date. Build a relationship with yourself. Enjoy life. This is going to evolve into physical communication and ultimately your Union.
Have compassion for yourself and your Union. You are healing.
Adam and Breann are Twin Flames in Harmonious Union. Living the dream and sharing their life experiences with others.